Written by Ashton Deroy
(The writer of this piece is autistic)
Male loneliness epidemic. If you ask certain online feminists it isn’t even real. Well tell this to the 11 women attacked by a van by Incels in Toronto in 2018. Basically a guy who couldn’t get laid. Snapped and decided to go on a killing spree. I get it. Not the brutal mass murder thing. I do understand why he was lonely and his mental health was Obliterated. As I have said many times? Cause of the brutal nature of Autism + PTSD I don’t think people with autism should ever attempt to join the army. We have a relative with autism PTSD from the army moving him around and wrecking his life. He has been intolerable ever since. For those who don’t know? I grew up in Quinte West near the air base.
What is the male loneliness epidemic? It is a trend of increasing isolation around men. That is causing dangerous mental illness in some cases. Or even just general mental illness. As a lonely gay male myself. I have some thoughts on contributing factors.
- Lack of Work/Life Balance – We ought to be entitled to a guaranteed consecutive 2 days off a week minimum. We are forced to go in to work or starve constantly. With people around us just saying suck it up. I now scream at those people. For boosting a toxic culture. I support 5 day work weeks and 4 day work weeks. The fact is with his short time in the army? He would of been overwhelmed and triggered. Cause it is not a humanizing experience.
- Triggering male mental illness – Someone somewhere was pressuring Alek Minassian to join the army. It was never a good idea for an adult with autism . Adults with autism aren’t less likely to get mentally screwed up by the experience. They are more likely to become mentally screwed up. In my case my loneliness was triggered by a Giant Tiger boss Jennifer Boutilier pushing me too hard on the job in 2019. Which lead to me getting a concussion and destroying my life.
- Lack of access to unpaid mental health services – By Unpaid I mean government funded. We need free access to mental health care. Cause what is happening now? Doesn’t work at all. Poor people don’t pay for therapy. They pay for street drugs. Grow up, change the system and recognize the threat for what it is.
- A negative generalized perception of men –
Responsibility to men? Cause I can’t continue without talking about men’s duties in this problem.
- Manage your addictions – Even if it means going to those stupid puritanical A.A. local groups, getting treated for porn addiction or seeing a therapist.
- Learn to resolve issues without violence
- Cut off Relatives triggering your mental health – I did it.
Who is profiting from the male loneliness epidemic?
- Tindr – $1.35 billion.
- OnlyFans – $1.3 Billion.
- Grindr – 290.89 million
- Gold digging women & men (Cause some lonely men are gay.)
What I think we should do?
Throw in the towel and get offline. Also vote to get more work/life balance policies. See about getting mental help? Get into nature. Find natural ways of meeting people who don’t use and abuse you. The most important part. is to not openly express you are lonely online. Cause people will aim to take advantage of it. As I showed with the profiting capitalizers above. The fact is if we continue to use these services in and around male loneliness? We will continue to be screwed and it isn’t good for anyone that culture is being steered in this direction. For now I think we should even go as far to normalize long term single life.
Look at healthcare in the USA? People think providing insurance is going to be profitable. Therefore they legally fight to keep the healthcare system in the USA in crisis. I worry about us keeping the male loneliness epidemic because it is extremely profitable. Ignoring the negatives of violent men who develop anti-Social personalities like Alek. Or the fact we are crippling our population by ignoring the need for acceptance and belonging. Which isn’t going to make men productive. It is going to make them disabled. Men with intimacy disorders aren’t going to staff our factories, armies and warehouses. They are going to sit on the street with a bottle and become pathetic shells of themselves.
It is time for a change people. One of the most important things we could do? Free dating apps. Spots for single adults and investing in our young people so they can have meaningful sexual/romantic lives. Not so they are just working desperately to barely survive. The other thing is? If society crashes? We can’t necessarily put it back together. This is a warning. The male loneliness epidemic will kill our societies and the culture at large. You see it in MAGA in the USA. You see it in the rollback of women’s rights. You see it in increasing male violence and you see it in broken and addicted men. It is time for a change. Divest from Onlyfans, Tindr, Grindr and ETC. Male loneliness is not something you are required to pay a fee for.
I am Ashton Deroy. I am Gay and I am a Lefty Men’s Rights activist. No I don’t believe in the rollback of women’s rights. Cause there are way better answers here and I see them clear as day.
Contact Ashton Deroy
Contact me about this article at Ashtonderoy@gmail.com or text 613-888-1958. My phone blocks calls from unknown numbers. Obviously…
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