Written by Ashton Deroy

For the fortheLoveofBelleville.ca can also be reached by going to ashtonderoy.ca going forward this week. This ensures I don’t lose my value associated with older digital assets I have used. It is also important to own your name. Technically I can make a claim to my name being my own Intellectual property. Do you own your own name? If you don’t I can help you acquire it.

Contact me at 613-888-1958 or email me at ashtonderoy@gmail.com Standalone I am a Template and Website Publishing seller. I can also coordinate projects. However those tend to cost more for reasons of labor.

Do you write your own wordpress blog? You should own your own domain. If you sunk any equity into your blog at all in time? You should pay to put on a title. Publish yourself and own your presence.

This is going to be called an over correction and I don’t care. The Other reason I own my name is I am a control freak with a creative writing & communications background. Obsessed with telling my story and keeping the record straight. Not kidding either when I say I am related to people who tell false stories about me to soothe their own victim complexes or Traditional self-righteous egos. In any case I am not above setting the record straight on back talk I think may be damaging to my reputation. I am just issuing rebuttals. It’s not a volunteer to escalate it is a ‘This is a big centralized megaphone and I am going to speak louder about me than me.” When I can bring myself to have the courage? By golly gee I am going to tell the truth to. Although if it is something that is none of your Business. I may screw with you! I have on Facebook read someone’s bucket list of complaints about me. To which I rebuttal and made them look like a dick. Why did I publicly read my address? Someone was acting controlling to a degree I didn’t feel safe. Again this is a centralized communication channel.

The Truth is. I am a 31 queer Autistic adult. Part of my survival mechanism has had to be. Self-narration and a centralized communication channel. People have threatened to sue. People have claimed lots of negative things. Most of them have been wrong. With maybe the exception of Kyle, Kaylib, Ashley, Tracy and my father. I am capable of guilt. Especially as an alcoholic with a weak stomach. Yeah you feel bad when others clean up your sick. You kind of have to start speaking up when you begin to starve, go without shelter or experience abusive employment or have a parent mischaracterize you to maintain control over you.

Why I don’t keep more conflicts quiet?

One heat is how you get ratings. Literally ask Eric Bischoff. Ok the main reason is? Behind the scenes stuff can have a lasting effect on your reputation if left unaddressed. For me that can mean not getting the job I desperately need, losing important contacts and the stress of not being seen accurately. Listen if we both looked ugly in something that went public? People will see that. If I get the heat? Well This blog has seen that as well. I have gone villain to my audience before. The people who benefit from a silent conflict most are compulsive liars, the powerful and people who have patterns of manipulation. Unfortunately I did myself the pleasure of sticking my narcissistic middle finger up at those people in 2019. I got a concussion and let go of a lot of held back hostility all at once. Including a failing intimate relationships, family I didn’t feel connected to & a culture that doesn’t accept Conservative in our culture = Homophobia, Transphobia & ruthless exploitation.